ok so first off what do you think of the name?

and on to the baby name game:
Include Pictures if you want!

1. In your senior year of college you meet the man/woman of your dreams. As soon as you both graduate that spring you get married. What is his/her name? (put your name too)

2. When you return from your honeymoon to ________, you find out you are pregnant. It will be a baby girl. Her first name must start with the same letter as your first name. Her middle name will be you sister or best friends name. Where did you go on your honey moon? What is the baby girls name?

3. Your darling daughter is now 2 years old, she is the best thing that has ever happened to you. You are not ready for more kids, so your husband/wife gets you a pet. What type of pet? What is the pets name?

4. 6 months later you find out you are expecting again. This time with all boy triplets. Their first names will be whatever you like. There middle names will be close relatives. What are the babies names?

5. 2 years later, your daughter is 4 and 1/2 and your triplets are 2. You feel like maybe one more baby might be okay, but you end up with identical twin girls. There first names must deal with your favorite season. One middle name must be your middle name. The other middle name must be a female version of your husbands name. What are their names?

6. 5 years later and all the kids are growing up. Your oldest daughter is 10. Your triplets are 7 and 1/2. Your twins are 5 and headed off to kindergarten. You miss having a baby around the house. So you and your husband try for one more and surprise again! Twins!!! 1 boy, 1 girl. The baby girl comes out very tiny and sick, she pulls through but is still a tiny baby. You name her something that means miracle, faith, or hope. Her middle name is based on your favorite celebrity. Your son’s name is based on your favorite male celebrity. His middle name is your husbands first name. What are there names?

7. 8 years later and you are done having kids, but your kids are all growing up. Your eldest is 18 and graduating high school. Your triplets are 15 and 1/2. The first set of twins is 13. The babies are all grown up and turning 8. As a graduation present for your daughter you buy her a car. What kind of car do you buy her?

8. 2 years later you get a phone call from your daughter. She tells you she is getting married. When she visits home with her fiancee, she also announces she is expecting. She tells you she wants you to give her the first name, her middle name will be her moms middle name. What is your first granddaughters name?

9. All your kids are grown up and married. Your grandkids total 11. Name them all, (you only have to do first names.)

10. You are happy with your life and how it has been. So remind me of all your kids names.

Hope you enjoyed!!

ok so first off what do you think of the name?

and on to the baby name game:
Include Pictures if you want!

1. In your senior year of college you meet the man/woman of your dreams. As soon as you both graduate that spring you get married. What is his/her name? (put your name too)

2. When you return from your honeymoon to ________, you find out you are pregnant. It will be a baby girl. Her first name must start with the same letter as your first name. Her middle name will be you sister or best friends name. Where did you go on your honey moon? What is the baby girls name?

3. Your darling daughter is now 2 years old, she is the best thing that has ever happened to you. You are not ready for more kids, so your husband/wife gets you a pet. What type of pet? What is the pets name?

4. 6 months later you find out you are expecting again. This time with all boy triplets. Their first names will be whatever you like. There middle names will be close relatives. What are the babies names?

5. 2 years later, your daughter is 4 and 1/2 and your triplets are 2. You feel like maybe one more baby might be okay, but you end up with identical twin girls. There first names must deal with your favorite season. One middle name must be your middle name. The other middle name must be a female version of your husbands name. What are their names?

6. 5 years later and all the kids are growing up. Your oldest daughter is 10. Your triplets are 7 and 1/2. Your twins are 5 and headed off to kindergarten. You miss having a baby around the house. So you and your husband try for one more and surprise again! Twins!!! 1 boy, 1 girl. The baby girl comes out very tiny and sick, she pulls through but is still a tiny baby. You name her something that means miracle, faith, or hope. Her middle name is based on your favorite celebrity. Your son’s name is based on your favorite male celebrity. His middle name is your husbands first name. What are there names?

7. 8 years later and you are done having kids, but your kids are all growing up. Your eldest is 18 and graduating high school. Your triplets are 15 and 1/2. The first set of twins is 13. The babies are all grown up and turning 8. As a graduation present for your daughter you buy her a car. What kind of car do you buy her?

8. 2 years later you get a phone call from your daughter. She tells you she is getting married. When she visits home with her fiancee, she also announces she is expecting. She tells you she wants you to give her the first name, her middle name will be her moms middle name. What is your first granddaughters name?

9. All your kids are grown up and married. Your grandkids total 11. Name them all, (you only have to do first names.)

10. You are happy with your life and how it has been. So remind me of all your kids names.

Hope you enjoyed!!

My fiance and I are looking to take a cruise to either the South Pacific, Australia, or New Zealand for our honeymoon in December, 2011. It is the first cruise either of us have ever taken, so we’re hoping to find a good travel agent who is familiar with cruise lines in this part of the world. We’re young professionals who are just starting out in life, so we probably won’t be taking any luxury lines (Paul Gaughin, Seabourn, etc) unless we can get a really great deal! We’re most likely going to be taking something on Princess, Royal Caribbean, or another more affordable line. Does anyone know of a good travel agent who might be able to help us? Thanks!!

A former classmate of mine is getting married 2 weeks from now and I haven’t been invited to the wedding. Her and her boyfriend have been engaged for about a few weeks now, so I think if I was going to be invited, I would have heard by now. I am even ok with not having been invited, as we are not incredibly close anymore and maybe only exchange e-mails once a month or so. (but we used to be pretty close back in school – we had classes together all throughout our school days)

But what offends me is that whenever I ask her a question about her wedding (ie, when is it, where are you going on the honeymoon), she ignores those questions and only answers other stuff (like if I ask how her job is going).

I understand that I am not invited, and I can see her maybe being uncomfortable with giving me info about her wedding if I am not invited. But yeah, I just find it rude that she doesn’t answer the other questions.

When she finally does get married and I find out (probably by way of friends posting wedding pictures on Facebook), do I send a congratulatory card? E-mail? Nothing?

This problem doesn’t keep me up at night, so it’s not a big deal, I’m just wondering what you guys think.

I love my BF, we have a lot in common, we’re both early 30′s, been together for 2 years. The first 6 months of the relationship was wonderful, and like any “honeymoon” period for a new couple, at about the 6 month mark, the sex dropped off. I have a fairly high sex drive, and he (at this point) told me he’d always had a low sex drive. I was a bit shocked since for first while together we were having sex every day, sometimes multiple times. Long story short… it’s starting to take it’s toll because I am un happy with not only the frequency, but the fact that he’s basically told me that he doesn’t enjoy sex all that much, and it’s far from being a priority. All I feel now is animosity, and rejection. We’ve talked ad nauseum about the whole thing, and it is what it is. Has anyone else been through this? How do you deal with it? How do you get past thinking it’s your fault, and get over feeling completely unattractive?

A friend of mine from highschool and I got back in touch several months ago. We both felt sparks from the beginning. Of course there is always that “honeymoon” phase in all relationships, but for about five months we were sooooooo happy. We never officially gave our relationship a title because we both had things going on in our lives that prevented us from wanting to commit, but he would tell me and my friends and his friends and family that I was his future. I think I held out on him a little too long though, because he started saying things like “we are [this] to each other and [that] to each other and we do all [this] for each other and when are you going to let me in ‘I think I’ve earned it.’” And I agree. He is amazing and I love him very much. I just needed some more time to prepare for all of the ways our lives would change by taking that step to become a couple. We ended having a disagreement and didn’t speak to each other for a little over a week. During that time he leaned on a female friend of his for support and she has swooped in and now he thinks he may have feelings for her. He and I have maintained a very close friendship to the point she is quite jealous. I have always wanted him to be happy even if it’s not with me although I would prefer it if he was with me. He still says he thinks of me as someone he could share his life with, but I hurt him so deeply that he doesn’t know if he will give us another chance. The thing is, we just found out that I’m pregnant. I do not believe that people should be with each other just because of a baby. It is still very early and who knows how this will turn out. I have an IUD and I was not supposed to be able to get pregnant. Now he is thinking that I mislead him somehow and he is shocked and upset. I am giving him some space to deal with his thoughts and feelings for a few days. But ultimately I would like to make a plea for him to give us a chance. We were so so so happy, and not very long ago at all I was everything he wanted. I have not stopped wanting us to have another chance since our argument, long before we found out about this pregnancy. So my wanting us to work it out is not becuase of this. I know that if he would just let down this wall he has built and let himself feel something, the connection is there. What should I say to him?

my wife is great and amazing and loving, she helps out around the house and so forth, she doesnt work but i do and we get by just fine. she is of course secretive about her friends she just says she is going to hang out with them but i always see her walking extra distance to where they are waiting her so i dont see them she wont even say if they are guys or girls. but no big deal. the problem is that she never wants sex, i can get by just fine cause i am still a virgin (we didnt have sex on the honeymoon either) but she isn’t so im wondering how can she hold out? is there a reason as to why she is doing this?

i tried talking to her and asked her about counseling but she gets angry at me everytime i bring it up and refuses to talk about sex. she wasnt sexually abused or anything or raped i just dont understand.

O.k this is the problem.Shes older and i’m younger,We have been together for more than a year.We talked about kids and even moving in together.We even looked at houses together.We talked everynite before we went to sleep over the phone.We did everything together and always kept it active ie plays movies, restuarants etc.Our honeymoon phase never ended even after that 5 months of meeting each other.So it was good. Then 5 months ago she said she had concerns and wants me to improve.ie be more open about myself “let down the wall” . So i did. i let down the wall, showed her everything and told her everything. See her last ex’s never did and always treated her wrong.Btw, she has baggage..married, divorced abortion HPV. I still dealt with it and stuck with her after the 1st month she told me. Anyway, than out of the blue two weeks ago she said I dont think this is going to workShe said your not independant and no 401k plan investment.After the break up i havent called her.Will she call me?
btw she lives with her mom 1, to save money 2, her mom is disabled.
For a short time i was living with my brother until my mother suffered a stroke , than i took it upon myself to stay with my mom. She, my ex, knew this before coming into the relationship. She said she was o.k with it. She wanted me to improve, and i did. I always kept the romance alive. And when we talked about kids and moving in together, i was totally for it. I never detered from it or changed the subject. Always told her i cared for her etc… One week before the break up. we bumped into one of her friends and they asked if are moving in together and she replied yes. Then a week later she dumps me.. WTF? ..lol. Will she call me… i havent email, txtm, or called her. What should i do?
I spend equal time between her and my family…ie mother, brother. I think she thinks i spend more time with my family than with her. I spend time with her every weekend and once or twice on the week.

i get married in 11wks and we already live together and have all that we need( and then some more) so for our wedding gifts we are doing a wishing well in which all money that we get gives us a bit of a honeymoon as we aren’t having one due to the cost of the wedding but i am getting a lot of nasty comments on it and people are saying they won’t do it and wil give a gift instead whether we want one or not we have told them if they don’t wish to contribute to the wishing well then please bring nothing just themselves and a good time!! how to deal with this please help
i’m not pressing the issue of it people like to know that stuff they give you will be used i would love anything people give us and be gracious with it either way but when i give a gift i like to know that the person could really use it or want it, we put down our pref this isn’t the dark ages time’s have changed , and being able to save for our honeymoon went out the window when i discovered i was sick not long ago so with my htb working his tail off to get my med’s and the wedding a honeymoon was what we decided we would both need to relax away from it all and enjoy each other even if it’s for a couple of days

Many people say sex is awkward, painful, and horrible the very first time. I’m waiting for marriage and am thinking wow, the honeymoon is going to be terrible for that part. Which really isn’t that big of a deal but I wonder if it won’t be as awkward as it is fir most people due to the fact of you being more comfortable with the person your with. I plan on being with a guy for at least 2 years before I marry him. In that amount if time we would hopefully be 100% comfortable with each other. Maybe sex would be less awkward if you knew person well, you wouldn’t be shy, etc.
I’m looking for more reasons to wait until marriage to convince others and show others the benefits (which there is tons)
opinions?
I didn’t ask whether you approved of abstinence or not. I don’t judge those who don’t wait so dont judge me.