What do women prefer more in a marriage, a big Wedding or a nice romantic honeymoon?

14 Comments

1. ✿◕ ‿ ◕✿ says:

   January 22, 2012 at 1:23 am

   Both. I aint having a big wedding and a crap honeymoon, or a crap wedding with a nice romantic honeymoon.
2. S B says:

   January 22, 2012 at 1:24 am

   What we did was postpone the honeymoon. It’s all about balance, But i think most people would rather have the big wedding. A honeymoon is (in my opinion) just a special vacation between the two of you. We took our honeymoon on our first anniversairy.
3. Candy says:

   January 22, 2012 at 2:22 am

   romantic honeymoon because I will be spending my time with my love. but not a big wedding because people will enjoy their time more than me
4. foreverfreeyetborntobe says:

   January 22, 2012 at 2:26 am

   I completely agree with ‘Candy’s response…the wedding doesn’t have to be big to be meaningful or enjoyable as well,,,the romantic honeymoon is most preferred for me..I get to be with the person I just married !! which is really what its all about.

   I realize women preferring larger weddings tend to have superficial views about marriage.
5. Sophie says:

   January 22, 2012 at 2:56 am

   I had a small wedding that was better than I could have imagined and we have a wonderfully romantic honeymoon in Paris, we were allowed to use his parents flat to stay in.
   However, I never viewed either of them to be important in marriage. The wedding wasn’t the important part, it was the vows that I was making that were the important part.
6. Sweet_Di says:

   January 22, 2012 at 3:54 am

   I wanted a nice honeymoon. I can not see spending $$$$ on a wedding when we can use they money for other things like a home . We got married by the county clerk and had a nice cookout with a few friends and family members. I am glad we did it they way we did. we spent a week at Lovers Key Resort in Florida. I want to go back there !!!
7. La Vie Boheme says:

   January 22, 2012 at 4:36 am

   The wedding and the honeymoon have nothing to do with the marriage. But if you are asking what I would prefer more if given the choice, I would have to say Honeymoon.
8. peanut 2 says:

   January 22, 2012 at 5:32 am

   Both.
9. Boo Boo says:

   January 22, 2012 at 5:35 am

   romantic honeymoon, its all about the couple not the show or the people,
10. nova_queen_28 says:

    January 22, 2012 at 5:54 am

    I think it depends. Some people would prefer the wedding, others the honeymoon, and others would prefer both.

    Personally, I had a combination of both. We set a budget we could afford for our wedding & honeymoon and were able to invite everyone we wanted to include — we didn’t have to cut our guestlist. We ended up with 125 guests attending. Our honeymoon was exactly what we wanted, too.
    In order to keep to our budget, we did have to rule out some venues for the wedding as they were just too expensive and there were things I did myself to save on costs. But we were able to stay within budget and still have a great wedding.
11. jct_pp says:

    January 22, 2012 at 6:01 am

    I think a nice honeymoon. i want a small intimate wedding, ive never been the kind of person who wants hundreds of people looking at me saying my vows
12. P says:

    January 22, 2012 at 6:26 am

    I prefer a nice honeymoon. I would rather spend my money on something other than a wedding.
13. KaylianaJolie says:

    January 22, 2012 at 6:42 am

    I’d rather have a big honeymoon and a small wedding. We wasted so much money (that we are STILL paying off 2 years later) on a big wedding and in the end I don’t think it was worth it. I would have been much happier if we had just eloped and used the money towards a butler suite here instead: http://www.sandals.com/difference/couples.cfm?referral=134793
14. amiga says:

    January 22, 2012 at 6:44 am

    Believe it or not, not all women have the same opinion on this or any other issue. Ask the woman you intend to marry, whydontcha?

    Personally, I think spending half a year’s salary on a single day is stupid, but obviously not every woman agrees with me.